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And why there are sad, scary and cruel fairy tales?!

A little girl of four years, I sometimes had (by objective reasons) for a few hours to stay at home all alone. In order not to be scary and boring, my parents taught me how to properly turn on the player and put on it the plates with fairy tales... And it became sad and scary when the princess-frog turned around with a cuckoo and flew away for three or nine lands... As a schoolgirl, the book of Hans Christian Andersen I reread only when there was absolutely nothing to read and always took her with a sense of inner trepidation and often over his brutal tales cried when a little swan was glued nasty ugly Ducks, and the gentle gerdu tormented by the spiteful little robber. Even then I decided to never read to my Children "bad", in my opinion, fairy tales: My children were accompanied to sleep only a sympathetic vini-fluff! But sometimes, in the dark, came the eldest daughter and asked her to repeat again and again a story about a very different bear and Masha, which helped to escape the tiny mouse... A tale of a three-legged dog.
, such a loss, whatever it was connected to-a huge trauma for the child. How to bring a child out of a state of depression, if there was an irreparable grief in his life, how to help him live further and build effective social communication strategies, where and what he Now draw inspiration? I do not remember the exact evolution of the plot, but I was amazed Amazing story about a little cheerful dog who lived in the house of one boy. She was very playful and brought a lot of joy to her owners and children, and herself was very happy. But then the trouble happened to her, and she lost one paw. Then the wound healed, and the dog learned to run on three paws not worse than four and even played ball with their favorite owners and made all sorts of funny tricks and all was good and joyful and the dog was happy too... This amazing story has helped me to find a universal method of solving all my psychological problems. If you knew! Having read the books of Zinkevich-Yevstigneeva, I understood what subjects led me into a terrible forest of disappointments and heartache and how to find a path leading to the light, and what kind of grass to take with him from this forest to cure the bitterness that poisoned the heart. And already, as a grandmother, I felt on myself how effective means is correctly told a cruel tale: began to invent their own plots and completely rewrote the scenario of my own life. Now I regret only that I was not able to effectively help my little daughter, who was so in need of protection, but could not tell that she was troubled, and all asked to repeat, and repeat, a cruel tale about the little Masha and the evil bear....

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We are engaged in development of motor activity of the child

When born, a newborn must learn a lot: hear, watch and move. In the process of growth, the child is constantly developing, becoming active, improving their ability to manage their own body. Pediatricians of motor activity call the ability of the baby to hold the head, later sit down, get up, then crawl and finally walk. Considering that all this child to learn gradually, at his birth reflexes are checked. This is done to assess the development of the baby. For example, the "plantar" reflex is checked by holding a finger on the sole of the leg, while the newborn will be undered. It is easy to identify the presence of a "sucking" reflex by touching the baby's lips. Everything near the mouth is perceived by the newborn for the chest, which he will try to grasp and start sucking without slowing down. If you put the tip of your finger in your baby's palm, it immediately burns it. This indicates the development of a child's "grasping" reflex. If you have all these reflexes can safely say about the normal development of the baby. A two-month child is able to follow the eyes of the subject, which moves, while turning the head. If he put a nipple or rattle in his pen, he will immediately try to suck it or shake it. Only five to six month old child learn to Take your own items into the pens. At this age the robot toy will be a good purchase good purchase for the baby.
If to manage movements of a head and handles practically all kids learn at one time, then to sit down, to turn over at some turns out earlier, at others later. At three-month age there is no need for a strong swaddle baby, he wants to constantly Move both handles and legs. In order to enable the child to train in the holding of the head, it is necessary to spread it more often on the tummy. By six months, children learn to sit on their own. In any case it is inadmissible at this stage of development of the child to allow it to sit long, it is necessary to allow muscles of a spine to adapt. The correct will be the ESV of the child for a short time, then it must be stowed. Usually by year many children start to walk independently, therefore at this age it is possible to buy a trampoline which will help to develop muscles of legs. If the kid did not learn to do something, and the parents are sure that it is time to be able to do it, do not have to make independent conclusions. Show your child to a doctor and most likely your fears will prove unfounded. Remember, every kid is unique.
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The role of women in child-rearing

The primary tutor of the child in the first years of his life is his mother, and it can do much to prevent the appearance of negative traits in the character. And it is necessary to start work in this direction from the first months of his life. Let's say the kid's cranky. It irritates and strongly beats on nerves. In such cases the mother should try to persuade the child, distract his attention, let him feel that he is understood and he is not alone. In fact, the kid does not want to bother his mother, just this is his mood at the moment. Arrange a performance – use all your patience and imagination. However, in no case do not deceive the child, promising a new toy to make stop crying. He remembers the forbidden reception and will use it in the future constantly. At the same time do not scare him Baba-Yagaga or a stranger uncle, because the weak nervous system and children's imagination are very impressionable. With the help of various horror stories can make a baby coward, who will be afraid of strangers, darkness, etc. A person at any age seeks compassion, understanding and complicity in mother. Mother-the only refuge, where children come with all their problems, she will judge and comfort. Therefore, a woman should try to justify these hopes....

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Children's Benefits in 2011

In accordance with article 10 of the draft law "on the federal budget for 2011 and for the planned period of 2012 and 2013" Indexation of state-funded allowances for citizens who have children, from January 1 of the following year will be 1.065. On December 1, the Federation Council sent the project to the Russian president for signature. If it is signed: 1) lump sum allowance for women, registered in medical institutions in the early stages of pregnancy, equals 438.87 rubles, when in 2010 the amount was 412.08 rubles; 2) A lump-sum benefit at the birth of a child, including the transfer of his family to the upbringing will be 11703.13 rubles, when in 2010-10988.85; 3) monthly allowance for the care of a child before reaching the age of 1.5 years:-The child born first-2194.33 rubles, and in 2010 This amount is 2060.40 roubles; -Birth of the second and the following children-4388.67, and in 2010 the amount of allowance 4120.82 rubles. As in the subjects of the Russian Federation there are coefficients to wages, therefore the sum of allowances is calculated with their application. Major changes in the calculation of benefits as of 1 January, the order and size of childcare and maternity benefits is being changed. This is reflected in the draft law "on amendments to the federal legislation on compulsory social insurance in case of temporary incapacity and in connection with motherhood". On December 1, the Federation Council sent it to the Russian president for signature. Previously, these allowances were accrued on the basis of the average earnings of the person who had been calculated for the last 12 months. From January 1, 2011, the calculation will be based on the average earnings of the person, which is calculated for the last 2 calendar years before the onset of the event (incapacity, pregnancy). Average earnings consist of all types of remuneration and Payments to be made to the FSS (premium, vacation, salary, etc.). In the coming year, the average daily earnings (UDZ) for the calculation of benefits will be calculated as follows: The amount of earnings is divided by 730 (SBP = earnings for two years/730), while in 2010 the RBP is calculated by dividing the earnings received for A certain period, by the number of days of the same period, excluding maternity leave, including childcare and disability. Example of calculation of maternity benefit in 2011 we calculate the amount of charges, which are levied in the FSS for 2 calendar years, which preceded the holiday on Bir, namely for 2009 and 2010 years. Also, the average annual earnings should not be more than the size of the base for calculating insurance premiums in the FSS (formerly it was 415 000 rubles). If it exceeds this base, the accrual is carried out within the insurance sum equal to 415 000 rubles. The data are summed and then divided into 730. As a result, the average daily earnings of Sdz = (NW 2009 + NW 2010)/730. The required amount to be paid is calculated as follows: The Udz should be multiplied by the number of days specified in the incapacity list (e.g. 140). In case of lack of earnings or its amount was lower than the Mrot for two years before the occurrence of the insured event, the benefit is calculated on the basis of the size of the Mrot. SZ = 24 * 4330/730 = 142.36. Thus, the benefit on BIR for 140 days should be not less than 19930. Those benefits that have already been assigned before January 1, 2011, are recalculated only in the direction of increase. The developed rules will be used for calculations only after the onset of January 1 of the New Year....

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Relations of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been considered uneasy. But there is a way out in any situation, because everything depends on the behavior of both women.

Life with the mother-in-law is usually worse than with the mother-in-law, since it is necessary to divide not only man, but also the house and duties in it. Sometimes even separate habitation does not save from supervision of mother-in-law, and there is a divorce. Usually, both women are always to blame in all quarrels. But the daughter-in-law should not involve her husband in these problems, because it will be very hard for him to be on someone's side, because he loves both women. But more often men are on the side of the mother. In these difficult relationships, the bride needs to compromise, and if not to love the mother-in-law, so try to treat her with warmth and understanding. Thus it is not necessary to flatter it, and simply to be itself, to respect it and to love the husband. Also, you should listen to the advice of the mother-in-law, because they sometimes are not so bad. It is also worth discussing the section of chores – who when cooks, cleans and the like. And, most importantly, try to listen more mother-in-law, find out what she does not like, and what it refers to positively. Very often divorce of spouses occurs exactly on an empty place, because mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law did not understand each other. nbsp...

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Lighting the landscape

How to illuminate the water the beauty of garden natural or artificial reservoir is obvious by itself. But with decorative lighting, it will acquire its zest. Due to the correct type of lamp, the water is mysteriously shimmering like a magic mirror or changes shades. It is enough to choose the type of lamp. At the edges of the pool or pond, you can place lanterns of different colors, sizes, shapes and capacities, or set a spotlight to create a bright spot of light. More often the beam of a spotlight direct on a decorative group of water plants or on a sculpture. How to illuminate the façade of the house and the site near the house. For example, illuminate the patio, i.e. a spacious patio of the apartment house with small resting areas, surrounded by the perimeter of open or glazed galleries that lead to the premises of the House (Colonnade). The special beauty of the patio is due to the decorative lighting garlands of many small colored light bulbs-yellow, green or red-orange. It is possible to captivate with garlands cornices of galleries or top colonnade or to spit them roots of trees. How to illuminate the paths, lawns and flowerbeds to illuminate the fences and walkways can be decorative luminous columns. Thanks to the platform with a thorn each flashlight is easily fastened on any terrestrial surface. Columns can be placed at any distance from each other-in a few centimeters, and 1.5-2 meters. You can create mini spotlights, shining from top to bottom, from the garden light bulbs, placing them in sealed boxes, hiding special plafons and located on the lawn or in the grass around the flower beds. Due to decorative lighting any corner of the garden is available at any time of the day. A game of light and shade creates an illusion of movement of decorative garden elements....

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Women's betrayal – who is to blame

In recent years, adultery by one of the spouses has become a frequent phenomenon and one of the main causes of divorce. Men by Nature are polygamous, treason for most of them is something for granted, despite the peculiarities of society. The essence of male infidelity is different from the female, and the motivation of adultery in women and men are completely different. If a man changes because of "sports interest", the desire to assert himself or simply to distract from life, the woman, either revenge for the lack of attention, or just looking for adventure on the side.
, but for high mental relations they thank lovers with sex. Paradoxically, but to change with ease the woman can in excess of attention. To good relations quickly get used, and then there will be an irresistible desire to look for a lover, for the embodiment of certain fantasies. It may be because of personal peculiarities, or because of dissatisfaction in bed with her husband. Some women in connection with the individual characteristics are not able to change, but it is necessary to offend her self-esteem treason, revenge for a long wait will not cause. Even if the woman said she forgave or forgives. She will either change herself to improve her self-esteem, or she will either divorce or live with the traitor (for personal reasons). Female treason is becoming quite frequent. It says far not only that the value orientations of the weaker sex have lost their quality. In this case, it is worth thinking and men. In fact, as it is commonly considered, good wives are good husbands. And in such a relationship there is no place for treason....

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How to please a man on the first date

Probably nothing inspires a woman like a first date. Gathering on rendezvous, the woman is asked by many questions, and experiences. At the same time often forgets that if a man invited on a date, it means, you already liked him and the most important is the fixation of the sympathy. Psychologists claim that the first impression of a person is formed in 3 seconds. This is an absolutely unconscious process. Here our brains perceive and take into account all information about the person. To a greater extent "decipher" non-verbal urge. It allocates a certain person from the crowd. It is not necessary 2 weeks before the potential meeting to beat the diets and run in search of suitable outfits. If a man saw you in jeans, sports jacket and sneakers, and invited on a date, not the fact that you will make a positive impression, wearing a super bright and provocative clothes. Therefore, it is not necessary to panic and radically change your style. It concerns not only clothes, but also hairstyles, and makeup. After all, how to like a man on the first date, often even the man does not know. In this connection the question arises: "What to wear to please a man?". As the statistics show, most men are biased against small black dresses. You can use this weakness when you're going on a date. Remember that creating your own image to meet a man, you must harmoniously combine sexuality, romance, tenderness and confidence. Men love it. And what you will wear-it is only your choice. The main thing here is not to overdo it. If you do not know where to pass your date, try to get dressed as neutrally as possible. After all, if you are in a short dress Go bowling, you will not be very comfortable. As for underwear, the theme is very ticklish. Many choose lingerie, with the expectation that suddenly, on the first date will be sex. This is, of course, a personal matter, but sex on the first date is not recommended. Man by nature miner-give him a chance to prove himself! Of course, there is a category of men who invite women to date only to meet sexual needs. If you do not want to "replenish the list" of such macho-Maine, the question of sex you decide unequivocally. However, good, expensive, chic lingerie, will be just necessary. Even if a man does not see him, it will give you confidence, and you'll feel freer. The gambling style is most often liked by men with inadequate self-esteem, but the elements of flirting will not be superfluous, because the man will feel that you are interested in him. The impressive style always answers the question: "How will you like a man on the first date?"-Impress and intrigue. Attentive style – A man will never remain indifferent if you show interest in what he is talking about. Simply put, on the first date, listen to the man, answer the questions playfully and with a riddle (to give him the ground for reflection), do not arrange him interrogations and in no case to compare with anyone. Try to be at a distance of personal space (40 cm-1 m), so you will establish a smooth relationship. Although, on the first date, you can quietly comprehend the intimate space of the partner (20-30 cm from the body of the person), unobtrusive touch will give a special charm. The first date is the stage of acquaintance, Importance of the occurrence of mutual contact. This causes future relationships. That is why do not dwell on how you like the man on the first date, and think about what you say, say, listen to him and understand. It is very good, if on the first date you will have friendship relations and attraction (both platonic and sexual). This will serve as a serious basis for the possible emergence of friendship, intimacy and even love. All men, without exception, love to be praised, admired. On the first date you can pamper a man. The main thing is to observe the measure and not to turn a date into the praise of the Great one. Try to maintain his point of view. Naturally, if you have a radically opposite opinion, you do not need to cross over and "succumb" to it. It is not enough, your first date will gradually grow into the second, and there and in family life. Then all these trifles will emerge and can serve as a serious cause for conflicts. Try to avoid those related to work. If you on the first date will have to learn about his earnings, you risk to impress a selfish, material and landed girl. But, if he talks about some elements of his work, he likes it, and you do not strain-listen and cute smile. Always remember that on the first date it is important to surprise the man. Make sure that he constantly thought about you and waited for the next meeting. You don't need to know any global rules. It's enough to stay yourself. And if it so happens that the first date was the last, analyze the date, and try to understand what went wrong. Perhaps the reason is far from you.
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Chocolate, cinnamon sticks, vanilla pods, coffee and milk are not really desserts, but the brown toilets of Lagrati!

Such a statement to someone seems eccentric, but in fact, brown color designers today use in decorating any room. It is considered appropriate in the bedroom, in the kitchen, in the living room, and in the bathroom. Neutral and saturated brown pacizes man, because fills the surrounding space with energy stability, reliability and goodwill. Psychologists in one voice say that discreet and calm brown color causes Feeling of warmth, calmness and softness. Exquisite Italian plumbing, made in brown color, reminds of nature, with its shades of earth, autumn leaves, wood of valuable breeds. Brown color, in interior design, becomes very popular during the period of economic turmoil and adversity, because its warm energy radiates confidence in the future, and gives a sense of inviolability of true values. Have you ever seen something more touching, and referring to memories of carefree childhood time than a combination of beige shades of creamy-tiled background combined with a gingerbread chocolate-glazed surface of brown toilets in Interior of the toilet room? This color is good in combination with Buffy, beige, terracotta and milky-white shades. Therefore it is good against a background of light tones of a facing tile of a sanitary knot which by themselves can quickly get bored, to arrange such optimistic accents, as brown toilets, sinks, a bidet of the Italian manufacturer Sanfajansa Lagrati. The choice should be stopped on this category of equipment also because of the high-quality performance and preliminary check for durability at the factory, protects you from unexpected surprises and guarantees reliability in long-term Term of operation of the products of Lagrati company. Plumbing We buy not for a day, so this criterion of choice is decisive. Interior details, made in brown colors, arrange space, because brown-the color of wealth, solidity and authority. The brown color of the accessories in the bathroom will make the room look more spacious and create an impression of coziness and inner safety....

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